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of daily prayer on the habits of business-Anec-
dote-Scene in the stage coach-Languor of reli-
gious feeling no excuse-Prayer more necessary
in such a case-A large family no excuse-It
renders the duty more imperious-Omitting family
worship-The letter-Family prayer but the begin-
ning of Duty-Example of Cotton Mather—A
father's influence-Story of the English clergyman
-A father's reflections at the close of life
EVENING HYMN

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CHAPTER III.-THE NATURE AND THE DUTY
INDIVIDUAL PRAYER.

To the Older Children.

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The Gate of Prayer; an Allegory-The various indi-
viduals who would not knock-The humble appli-
cant-The interpretation — Another story - My
father's visit to London-His instructions on prayer
- Our requests - Charlotte Her neglect, and
her disappointment-Reasons why God requires us
to pray-The right way-Story of the first real
prayer-Conclusion

TRUST IN THE SAVIOUR

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CHAPTER IV.-A TALK WITH JOHN.

For the Little Children.

What family prayers are for-Susan--The disorderly
boy-Story which a gentleman told-Little boys
should be still, and in order-The right and the
wrong way. The three kinds of prayer-The spirit
with which children should pray-Its effects upon
their happiness-Story of James-The weeding.-

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The Indians-James's temptations, and his re-
sistance of them-Conclusion

THE NEED OF PRAYER. Dialogue between Lucy

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CHAPTER V.-THE FAMILY CHANGED.

A Story for All.

My early life-My mother-Her death and her dying
charge-My absence-Visit to her chamber-Con-
versation with my father-The arrangement-My
second absence, and return-Conversation with my
sister-Happy effects of our family prayers

DOMESTIC DUTIES AND ENJOYMENTS

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The traveller-The storm-Night-The welcome to

the cottage

- Fire-side scenes -Conversation -

Morning General effects of religion - True and
false appearances-Duties of the father-Pressure
of business-Dialogues-Happiness to be found at
home-Virtue-Story of the vicious boy-Ties of
home-The sailor-Cowper-Burke-Byron-Con-
jugal fidelity-Home a safe and happy retreat

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CHAPTER II.-THE BIBLE TO BE STUDIED.

Methods of studying the Bible - In solitude-Ex-
amples given-Writing paraphrases Studying
characters Duties of parents - The children's

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CHAPTER III.—THE FRIEND IN NEED.

A ride in the wilderness-The lonely farm house-
Accommodations - The father's return - Family
prayers-True value of wealth-The rich Christian
-His son-A splendid establishment-Trials to
come-Sickness of a child-The scene-Death-
Need of religious consolation-Various separations
-The mother and her child-The bride-Sepa-
ration from her husband - Separation from her
child-Leaving home-The son; the daughter-
Dangers and temptations-Reverses of fortune-
Death of a father-Death of a mother-Religion
the only true friend in need

PART I.

INTRODUCTION.

CHAPTER I.

THE MASTER OF A FAMILY A VICEGERENT, NOT A SOVEREIGN.

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THE family is not a human institution. certain invariable and perpetual laws of human nature, God has secured its existence in all nations and in all ages of the world. Some theorists have endeavoured to overturn it, but God has laid the foundations of it too deep and strong for them. Extraordinary efforts may, in some detached and limited portions of the community, produce a temporary suspension of these laws. But what they substitute will be artificial, and when the application of artificial means ceases to be made, society must fall back spontaneously into the channels which God has indicated for it.

One of the most remarkable features of this extraordinary institution is the successive changes it undergoes in the course of its history. When the young husband and wife first enter upon the new relation, how little do they foresee what is before them! As they take possession, for the first time, of their new house, and enjoy its

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cheering aspects, its regularity and quiet, and its expression of domestic peace and joy, how little do they anticipate the trials and vicissitudes,— the deep, and yet unseen fountains of joy and sorrow, which lie in their future way! In a few years how changed! One after another has been added, in various ways, to the company, which began only with two, until, at length, they find themselves presiding over a numerous circle of children, and relatives, and domestics; the father and mother both involved in responsibilities, from which they would have altogether shrunk, had they anticipated them at the beginning.

In a few years this happy circle must be broken in upon and scattered. Death comes in and makes one and another his prey. Others gradually arrive at maturity, and leave their father's roof to seek other homes, and to return no more to the ark which sheltered them at first; and at last the father and mother are left alone, to spend their declining years at their solitary fire-side, to look back upon scenes of activity, and trial, and enjoyment, which can never return. Such is the outline of the history of thousands of families.

Another peculiar feature of this institution is, the immense power exercised by the head of it. The master of a family has his wife, his children, his domestics, and the other inmates, in his power, to an extent which is not equalled by any other authority. He has their happiness, and, in fact, their characters, almost entirely in his hands. He may make his house their quiet and happy home, the abode of peace, and contentment, and piety, or he may agitate it with eternal discord and confusion. He may train up his children in such a way, that they shall love and honour their

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